Sex in Human Loving by Eric Berne. Short summary

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Sex is present in life for a variety of purposes: to continue the species, to gain pleasure, or simply as a remedy for boredom. In human love, quality sex plays a key role.

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Sex occupies an important place in human life. We are talking about both its presence and, conversely, its absence. E. Berne talks about sex, orgasm, its impact on human relationships and love in a couple. Man lives by the script. It’s the same way with sex. There are certain actions that partners perform from time to time. So, for example, it is scripted behavior that causes a man to be impotent with his wife, and a great lover with prostitutes.

Э. Berne talks about the importance of having an orgasm. It is something more than just satisfaction. He talks openly about the fact that there are women who have never experienced such sensations in their lives. When they are intimate with their husbands, they rise to the point of pleasure, but the man reaches it faster, and the woman «comes down» back up and remains unsatisfied. For love in a couple, sex plays a key role. Partners should be able to give pleasure to themselves and their partner.